Shawn Delbert Carmer
Nov. 14, 1978 – July 5, 2026

Shawn Delbert Carmer, 47, of Lisbon, passed away on July 5, 2026, while vacationing with family and close friends in Branson, Mo. In his final moments, Shawn performed the ultimate act of love and heroism, sacrificing his own life to save his beloved wife and two of his sons. His selfless courage reflected the way he lived every day—putting his family before himself.
Born Nov. 14, 1978, in Iowa City, Shawn was the son of Brenda Ford and Dennis “Yogi” Carmer Sr. He graduated from Prairie High School and began a 16-year career at Amana before joining Quaker Oats in Cedar Rapids as a skilled operator and dedicated Union Steward.
On June 26, 2010, Shawn married the love of his life, Chelsea Marie Schmitz. Together they celebrated 16 years of marriage built on love, laughter, and unwavering devotion. Above all else, Shawn was a proud husband and father whose greatest joy was his family. He is survived by his wife, Chelsea, and his four sons, Gaberiel Carrillo (21), Preston Carmer (20), Gavin Carmer (19), and Connor Carmer (12).
He is also survived by his mother, Brenda Ford and her partner, Mike Grimm; his brothers, Dennis “Scooby” Carmer Jr. and wife Heidi, Michael Carmer, and Kenny Carmer and wife Brandi; his sister/cousin Jenifer Carmer (Back); his nieces and nephews: Dallas, Ashton, Shenandoah, Lyniann, Balynn, William, Rylah, Renley, Madison, and Lainey; along with many beloved in-laws, aunts, uncles, cousins, extended family members, and cherished friends.
He was preceded in death by his father, Dennis “Yogi” Carmer Sr.; his paternal grandparents, Delbert and Grace Carmer; and his maternal grandparents, Wanda and Joseph O’Connor and Orran “Buck” Ford.
Shawn never met a stranger. He was known for his quick wit, generous heart, and ability to make anyone laugh. He loved family vacations, riding his side-by-side, collecting coins, cheering on the Chicago Bears, supporting Lisbon Wrestling and Kennedy Football, playing pool with his brothers, and proudly claiming the title of “Champion” Euchre player. Shawn believed in treating everyone with kindness, respect, and fairness, and he was always willing to stand up for others.
Shawn will be remembered for his unwavering love of family, infectious sense of humor, and extraordinary courage. Though his life ended far too soon, the legacy he leaves behind will continue to inspire all who knew and loved him.
A celebration of Shawn’s life will be held at a later date.
Forever loved. Forever missed. Forever our hero.